Sex and The City

Gresik, 13 Mei 2009

Wah udah semingguan kagak nulis di blog. Semalam sempat bongkar2 koleksi dvd lama, yah kebetulan mas Andri udah ngembali-in dvd yang dulu dia pinjam, jadinya aq review lagi koleksi dvdku. Ada beberapa dvd yang aq pilih akan aq tonton ulang. Diantaranya yah film Sex and the City.

Ada adegan yang buat aq jadi sedikit merenung, dimana pernikahan yang dirancang dengan begitu mewah dan megah bisa gagal karena calon mempelai pria tidak yakin akan pernikahan yang akan dijalaninya, udah didepan gedung pernikahan malah takut. Gagal deh pernikahannya, sakit hati dan kecewanya calon mempelai wanita walau akhirnya jadi menikah tapi dicatatan sipil doank.

Di Indonesia, umumnya pesta pernikahan diselenggarakan dengan mewah (relatif seh), tapi kalo dilihat dari jumlah undangan yang diedarkan minimal 300 undangan yang artinya 600 orang kan.......

Ada beberapa temanku yang menjelang pernikahannya, berkeluh kesah, duit abis lah untuk biaya persiapan pernikahan dsb.

Kalo aq seh secara personal, hmmm lebih mentingin sah tidaknya pernikahan, yah kalo muslim yah di KUA nya itu yang penting, kalo Kristen yah acara pemberkatan di Gereja yang penting, bukan masalah resepsi pernikahannya.

Nikah secara resmi (agama) dan didaftarkan ke catatan sipil, BULAN MADU, baru resepsi (ini terakhir ajah) hehehehe.

Ada hal yang paling penting dalam sebuah pernikahan yaitu KEYAKINAN dan KOMITMEN.

Hmm kok Aq jadi sok tau yah soal pernikahan, wong menikah ajah belum hehehehe (tapi kalo kawin sering kan hahahaha).

Pola Tidur

Gresik, 2 Mei 2009

Pola tidur ku udah mulai aneh neh. Pulang kantor (kalo ngak badminton kan senam), setelah itu tidur deh, natr bangun jam 9 atau 10 malam atau malah bablas ampe pagi. Yang jadi masalah kalo pas bangun jam 10 malam, trus mau ngapain yah?????

Hmmm paling baca koran, maklum biasanya aq kalo baca koran hari ini tidak pagi hari, tapi malam, alasannya masuk kantor jam 7 pagi, bangun tidur jam 6.10 pagi, mandi, nggk sempat baca koran langsung ngantor gitu (plus pakai baju lho hehehe).

Tapi ada enaknya lho beraktivitas dimaam hari, sunyi, tenang gitu, jadi bisa lebih fokus terutama kalo lagi aca artikel atau novel gitu hehehehe atau nonton dvd. Hmmm stock dvd habies neh, hampir semua film di bioskop udah aq tonton, weekend ngapain yah?

Paling makan ama batok, hmm tadi pas pulang kantor pgn makan di pronto, nelfon batok, eh dianya ada acara makan-makan sama si Jay dan orang2 kantor juga di pronto. Hmm jadi batal deh.....Besok makan di penang ajah yah????? hehehehe.

Kembali ke masalah pola tidur...
Beberapa temanku:
Sebut saja si A, dia tuh kalo tidur jam 9 malam, udah deh samperin ajah kamarnya, dia pasti udah tertidur lelap dan bangun pas jam 04.30 pagi. Teratur banget yah...
Beda ama si B, ini mah tidurnya jam 1 pagi bangunnya jam 6.20 pagi gitu deh.
Lain lagi dgn si C, tidurnya jam 3 pagi bangun jam 6 pagi.

Gw tanya sama si C, lu ngapain ajah ampe tidurnya dini hari gitu, yah facebook lah, chatting lah, browsing lah....hmmm pokoknya skrg hodup ku FACEBOOK banget deh.

Weleh-weleh rupanya flu burung, flu babi (yang lagi marak), masih kalah ama FLU FACEBOOK.

Movie "He's Just Not That Into You"

Gresik, 28 April 2009

Semalam sempat lihat dvd film "He's Just Not That Into You", yang dibintangi ama Ben Affleck, Jenifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jenifer Connedy. Sebenarnya yang buat aq beli neh dvd krn ada Jenifer Aniston. Maklum aq nge-fans hehehehe jadi saingan ama Batok, dia kan juga nge-fans ama Jenifer.

Setelah ngelihat neh film, hmmm BUAGUS BANGET. Nyeritain ttg warna-warni pacaran, kencan, komitment dan pernikahan.

Satu pesan yang aq dapat film itu: Maybe the happiness is just a moving on....., dalam banget neh untuk aq hehehehehe

Weekend with W-GEN

Gresik, 27 April 2009

25 April 2009:
Meeting with Yuri, went to Galaxy Mall, bought movie ticket 'PUSH". Lucky us, we got the best seat that was D11 and D12. I was so starved at that time, so just run away to the food court, eat Pempek Palembang, Bubur Madura and Es Teller. During the show, Niken tried to contacted me couples times. Honestly, I really reluctant to meet her at that moment. The movie ended at 4 pm. We decided went to FO around Sumatera Street (I forget the name of that FO), but it is very convenience place to shopping, there is also small corner food stall that very cozy to relax. I bought 1 shirt, the shirt reminds me of Batok (he gave me a shirt from China that has a sexy picture on it, thanks dude). After I dropped Yuri into his house, I run to Tunjungan Plaza, Niken and the gank were waiting for me at Dante.

Hmmm, although I was so late at that time (bcos they were already at Dante since 3 pm) , I arrived at 5.30 pm hehehehe. W-GEN came together to celebrate Ika's Birthday Party and also Grace Promotion of her Job. Hmmmm I think Dante is nice place to chit chat, very cozy and supported with wifi. Catur brought his net book, hmmm DELL, nice net book......( I want to buy it hehehehe). After had a coffee, we went to Penang, hmmm the food were so delicious. Then we went to Nav Dr Soetomo, we sang for 2 hours. Hmmmm we were getting wild hehehehehe. Hmmm the girls took so many pictures. It is reminds me when we are still in the college. Yeah, this moment is very rarely to happened on us bcos we are busy with our own life. It is nice to see them laugh, dancing, singing, jumping, posing , ur rock girls although catur had a bad mood cos he can't surfing on net cos Nav has troubled with wifi connection.

Hmmm, rough night, At 10.30 pm I arrived at my boarding house. Can't sleep though, so watched the movie that I bought from Galaxy.

26 April 2009:

Niken woke me up by texting me news that Sayu already has a baby (the baby was born at 1 am). She asked me whether want to join with her to visit Sayu. I decided went to Surabaya at noon, swam, shopping ....yeah. I take some money to spend on cloths. I bought several t-shirts, It is nice to do shopping again, after 6 months not buying shirt hehehehe.

Facebook

Gresik, 18 April 2009

Hmmm, I knew this website (facebook) maybe ± 2 months ago. My friends always ask me to join facebook, but at that time I felt reluctant to join, bcos I already have a profile on friendster. But after hearing a lot of people talking about facebook, so I join with that sites. Suprisingly, facebook hels me a lot finding my old friends. It is nice to get in touch with them again after so long not to say or heard news from them.

She is my past

Gresik, 14 April 2009

One of my closed friend, her name is Ratih, open conversation with me in ym about my past relationship with her closed friend named "Sasinta'. After couples of time of speaking, she blamed me for the caused of the broken commitment between me and Sasinta. I am just saying to her that what already happened among me and my ex-gf is just a past, I did some mistakes and she also.

So, I just told her that I don't want to look back on my past regarding about my relation with Sasinta, cause the important thing for me are the present and future.

So far, I am happy with my life. I meet a few friend who is nice to me, they are acting normally as a friend, do not have other negatif meaning of friends.

Being single is not wrong. Being couples also. Whether my status is single or not, I enjoy my life, bcos I want to thank goodness for the life that I've been through.

General Election to vote Legislator

Gresik, 08 April 2009

Tomorrow, Indonesian will face General Election to vote Legislators. So many parties has their own legislator candidates, of course it will make Indonesian confuse because there so many legislator candidates dan parties. As long as open campaign period, the legislator candidates only stick their pictures, the number of party and also their number in the rows of their party in the side of the streets and in the trees.

Almost legislator candidates doesn't explain about their vision, mission and programs. If there is no campaign that promote their programs, it will confuse the voters.

I still confuse whether I should vote or not tomorrow because there is no legislator candidate that I knew well about their program or their reputation for the society.